Friday, March 27, 2009

its been too long.......

Its been too long since I wrote here, or anywhere.
Real life has been full of Drama the last few months, it has overtaken any spare time I have to play.

It has calmed down a little, but can’t see the situation getting much better for a while.
Me, Brian and Bratfink are all great, just some other family issues.
So whats new?

The sperm Donor left his wife just after Christmas. We have not heard from him since he said goodbye in England in December. His wife called me and told me what was happening and asked if her and her boys could still be part of Bratrfink’s life.

I am planning a trip back to England in July. My parents will be here in August, we have a house in N/C for a week, can’t wait for that.

Oh and I have turned into that irrational wife that every man trys to stay clear of. A lot of Brian’s family are on Facebook. Recently most of them have become friends with Brian’s ex wife. No big deal, except every time I go onto one of their pages I see her and see messages between them, messages like…..we miss you so much, can’t wait to see you. We miss your dog, please bring her over to see us (the dog thing was from his Mum). What pisses me off is that just lately not one of them have asked how we are, and have not asked about Bratfink. But his mother makes a huge deal about her ex daughter-in-laws fucking dog. It hurts. My poor husband has to listen to me vent about his shitty mother and how his family pisses me off. I have discovered how to block people, so I have decided to block her so I don’t read any more. I have no problem with her, its just we are in a bad situation with some of his family, so reading messages to her, at the moment, is not something I want to see.

Irrational? I don’t know, but thats how I feel.

I am really going to try hard to get back in to blogging, I miss you people.

11 comments:

  1. Hi :) I have'nt been here in awhile, either. Just came back yesterday. I hope you all have a most wonderful time in NC (North Carolina) with your family and parents!

    I'm planning (and am consumed!) with a vacation to my former home of Miami Beach!

    I know...me too, been going through that ole *drama* thing. Now it's time to start anew! :)

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  2. Yikes about the family. I'm so glad my in-laws live across the country!
    And it's nice to see you!

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  3. Nice to see you back here. Hopefully we cn take your mind off things for a little bit. Make sure you catch up on the shoes at the JS blog ;)

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  4. I don't see anything wrong at all about blocking - in fact, I was going to recommend it. It's still there, but it won't be "in your face," you won't be forced to look at it and read it and feel that sting anymore. I'm glad you did that. And I hear ya about asking about the dog versus asking about you & Bratfink... I'd say the exact same thing. You're not being irrational - because if you are, that'd mean that I'm irrational too, and probably 99% of the rest of us here who'd think the same thing.
    And you're lucky to have him there, willing to listen when you need to vent. That's a good way to show that you're on the same team and I'm glad you guys have that. :)

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  5. I don't know if anything dealing with exes is necessarily irrational; I have fb only for a handful of people, one of whom is my future stepdaughter. Her mother posts on there from time to time and I must admit, I don't enjoy seeing it!

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  6. That's why I don't do FaceBook or MySpace, or any of the plethora of others. The NC thing sounds fun. Enjoy! Hugs.

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  7. Can you make it for a party on the 4th?? We miss you guys!

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  8. Good to see you blogging again and am sorry about the family issues.

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  9. I think any woman who has ever been married has had at least one issue with the mum-in-law. You are certainly not alone. Makes me glad I'm single, actually.

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  10. I'm not around much anymore either. I miss JS. Real life has been rateher crazy for me of late as well. Glad you updated.

    Gill

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  11. If I were in your shoes I'd be feeling pretty "irrational", too. As long as your husband will listen and understands and doesn't take his ex's/mother's side then it sounds like you'll be ok.

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